When considering how your grandchildren view your relationship and what you want your legacy to be regarding you and your spouse, think about the ending to this sentence: “I knew Grandpa loved Grandma because he always…”
At first, it stung a little. Actually it stung a LOTT! I questioned if I should even bring it up so early when meeting someone new. Maybe I should just wait until the third or fourth date?
Even when our grandsons are older and developing that internal drive and determination, having their grandfather cheering them on is something every young man needs. We provide different love and motivation from what Mom and Dad provide.
Grandparenting isn’t about rewriting the past, it’s about being present and making life a little easier for the next generation. Sometimes, all it takes is a simple act of kindness.
Whatever your style is of being a cool grandpa, our granddaughters need us to provide support and encouragement. Based on my extensive study of grandfathers, four types of wisdom, love, and encouragement mean the world to our granddaughters.
So, in 2025, how do we grow our relationship with our grandchildren? We build it intentionally, one brick at a time, creating a solid foundation. This isn't about doing less; it's about doing things with purpose.